Thursday, September 15, 2011

LETTER time! ..... What is it with men?

Rules Girl,
What is the deal with men? I'm following the rules... Rules for online dating... and hopefully will get the opportunity to follow the rest of the rules once I meet a guy. I have a short and breezy online Match profile, one flattering picture and I am getting some replies. They ask for my number and I comply, they call and ask me out during a short pleasant conversation, we agree on a date in the future (without too much difficulty) and then nothing.... He doesn't call, text, email or anything... ARGH! Of course I am not contacting them to verify or finalize the details. If they want to go out they will make the plan right? They will follow up right? What is going on here? This is the 3rd time with three different guys!
-With big hugs,
-Izzy
Dear Izzy,

Thank you so much for your letter and Girl, we understand your pain! But keep hangin' in there! This is a reminder for all of us to JUST KEEP HANGIN' IN THERE! Don't give up. Because don't forget: You don't want to date a guy who doesn't want you! AND you don't want a guy that won't be good to you or for you in the future. Keep your head on straight. Also, you have to understand men, and keep this in mind while going through this whole dating game process: Men will forever be the hunters. They want to find you, seek you out, etc etc. So just keep hangin' in there because you want to find a REAL man that actually WANTS to be with you, not just finding a guy just to have one. Instead of trying so hard, maybe just take it easy and be yourself? Maybe instead of seeking online find a different route to find new friends and future lovers. Are you a part of any groups? Like to paint, play sports, etc? Try and join something where you can find and meet new people and keep on playin by the rules. 

XOXO
Rules Girl

3 Comments:

Blogger bren & joe said...

AMEN!

September 20, 2011 at 4:03:00 PM PDT  
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November 17, 2011 at 9:24:00 PM PST  
Blogger Snowflake CoolPaw said...

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