Saturday, June 19, 2010

You love him...you love him not...



Plucking daisies is definitely not the way to decide whether or not you love, loake, like, or crush a someone.

I've recently received a letter from someone asking, "How do I know if I love him or not?"
Well, My auto-response to this question is that if you have to ask if you love him, you probably don't or not yet. But this is not always the case. Love is a tricky thing, sometimes you may love him, but haven't necessarily hit the point where you are IN love with him and you know what... you don't HAVE to know. Until you are absolutely sure, you shouldn't be throwing around the "L" word. It's not fair to you or him to anxiety over it, so just take it easy and wait until you feel like the time is right. You NEVER want to force your feelings for someone.
If he really appreciates you and wants you around, he'll wait. He may not even be waiting at all and trying to figure it out for himself, so if you're stressing over it, you need to relax. If it ends up that he or she (because all of these posts apply the other way around or in a variety of relationship-types) gives you an ultimatum, then it probably isn't the relationship for you. These things should happen naturally and in their own due time.

XOXO
Rules Girl