Monday, December 6, 2010

Love Yourself...

...Or He never will.
What guy wants a girl that doesn't like herself?
Some pine for love, boyfriends, husbands, etc. But don't forget that you have to love yourself first. I just got done reading a memoir about a girl I knew and found it completely frustrating. It was very un-Rules Girlsy and inspired this post.

She didn't know what she believed and all she wanted in life was to be skinny and have a boyfriend. I couldn't take it I was so frustrated throughout the book. She would change her core belief system based on whether a man found her sexy or not. YOU will not. YOU are not that girl. If you looked in the mirror this morning and thought something negative about yourself physically, you need to change your mind. You have the power to change your attitude and especially to love yourself more.

If Mr. Awesome ever does come along, you'll be too wrapped up in thinking about you and how ugly or stupid you are... that you'll miss the cool guy standing in front of you.
Don't miss out. Love... YOU. Give yourself a lil' hugsy
You'll be surprised how when you start loving yourself and enjoying life, love just plops into your lap. SO, Stop thinking about you, and start loving yourself... so that eventually he can too.

XOXO
Rules Girl

2 Comments:

Blogger Chelsie said...

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December 7, 2010 at 9:07:00 AM PST  
Blogger Chelsie said...

"You may find that the best preparation you can make for marriage is to learn to love God and to love yourself. When you have a secure, spiritual knowledge of yourself as a child of God, you will find a sense of personal confidence and identity that makes a good relationship possible." M. Gawain Wells

December 7, 2010 at 9:41:00 AM PST  

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