Monday, September 20, 2010

Heartache Sucks

Dear Rules Girl,
Does anyone ever feel the way I do? That heartache sucks? I hate watching people go through it, I hate feeling it, and I hate causing it. It burns. It hurts. It won't go away. It's hard to concentrate on anything else. I want to see him, but I can't. I want to talk to him but I can't. I hate feeling as if I've been hurting too long, or don't want to tell anyone but everyone at the same time. I want to be alone, but I can't be alone. Heartache sucks. I know I'm crazy that I almost want the pain to stay because then at least there is part of them still with me. I write to ask you how to fix it, even though a large part of me doesn't even want to.
Sincerely,
heartache sucks.

Dear Heartache Sucks,
I'm sorry I didn't respond sooner, but I couldn't think of what to say. I know it sucks, but I feel as if only time heals. But in the mean time you can use a trick I learned from the movie Eat Pray Love (I know, cheezy mcgee but hey never knock good advice!). You're trying to get over it and clear your head but you miss them, you love them. We've all been there. It's hard.
In the movie Julia Roberts' friend tells her that in order to heal...to let herself miss them. "If you miss them...miss them. You love them, So love them. Send them love and light. then drop it." I would have to second this motion. There's nothing you can do, but to go through with those feelings. So when doing so, send them light and love, but then drop it. Allow yourself to feel a little sad, but then carry on. Drop it. Do the other great things you were meant to do.
Good luck. I send you light and love :)

XOXO
Rules Girl

3 Comments:

Blogger Ashley said...

Good advice.

September 21, 2010 at 10:15:00 AM PDT  
Blogger operapixie said...

Yep. Pretty much all you can really do.

November 8, 2010 at 8:29:00 PM PST  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Worked for me

January 5, 2013 at 11:15:00 PM PST  

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