Saturday, July 17, 2010

Dear Rules Girl

Dear Rules Girl,

How do I nicely turn down a guy who keeps flirting with me via text messages. I don't want to lead him on and he is a cool guy but I'm not interested in going out with him. Plus he is 10 YEARS OLDER than me and that's a big deal for me right now.

Turning anyone down can be hard, especially if you really care about them. But why not be straight up with this guy...or man? Why not just tell him not to talk to you anymore? Do you see him often, like the attention, or have a hard time saying no? Whatever your situation may be, you should just be honest with him. If you don't want him to text you anymore then tell him. If you don't want to go out with him and tell him. First decide what you want then proceed with the necessary action. The good thing about "text flirting" is that you can also respond with a text. You could text something like, "I'm just not interested in dating you, I'm sorry. But I just wanted to be honest." Then it is up to him how he reacts. But if you're going to tell him goodbye, tell him goodbye. Don't tell him you aren't interested and then text or call him all the time. Actions speak louder than words.

Good luck
Rules Girl

Monday, July 12, 2010

A little Rules Girl Song for the Heart

Sometimes you can't hide it.

Rules Girl