Saturday, June 19, 2010

You love him...you love him not...



Plucking daisies is definitely not the way to decide whether or not you love, loake, like, or crush a someone.

I've recently received a letter from someone asking, "How do I know if I love him or not?"
Well, My auto-response to this question is that if you have to ask if you love him, you probably don't or not yet. But this is not always the case. Love is a tricky thing, sometimes you may love him, but haven't necessarily hit the point where you are IN love with him and you know what... you don't HAVE to know. Until you are absolutely sure, you shouldn't be throwing around the "L" word. It's not fair to you or him to anxiety over it, so just take it easy and wait until you feel like the time is right. You NEVER want to force your feelings for someone.
If he really appreciates you and wants you around, he'll wait. He may not even be waiting at all and trying to figure it out for himself, so if you're stressing over it, you need to relax. If it ends up that he or she (because all of these posts apply the other way around or in a variety of relationship-types) gives you an ultimatum, then it probably isn't the relationship for you. These things should happen naturally and in their own due time.

XOXO
Rules Girl

4 Comments:

Blogger !zzy said...

What a great post!

June 21, 2010 at 1:10:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well, ... now that i know for sure that i don't love him , i have no idea how to break up with him !! ... the thing is , i already told him that i love him ... i told him that a lot ... i told him i'd never ever leave him .. and he believed me ... and now he's totally in love with me .. and he thinks we'll be together forever .. i know i've made a mistake , how can i fix things ?
i really don't want to stay with him but i don't know how to leave him either .. i'm SURE that i'll cause him some permanent damage ... if i leave him , his life would totally change .. he'll get really hurt .. i dunno if i can do this to him .! ... plz help

June 23, 2010 at 12:20:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The sooner you do it the better off you'll both be.

Do you want to be stuck with someone you don't love? No...

Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't love you? Hell no....

So fix it.

August 15, 2010 at 10:58:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Behzad Ghorbani said...

interesting

October 13, 2010 at 7:17:00 PM PDT  

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