Wednesday, March 3, 2010

STOP feeling "sorry" for me because i'm single...

Because I'm not sorry... so you REALLY shouldn't be either... really... no no really... you shouldn't feel sorry for me.

Welp, first of all I'm not just going to marry the next guy that walks up.
Secondly, it's not because I'm picky. Just because YOU think I'm picky doesn't mean that I am. Giving X, Y, and Z all a chance and it's just not working out... WHY? Because that's just the way life is.
Oh and Last of all... no I'm not TOO ambitious... no I'm NOT too good or too busy for them.
Now that we've cleared all that up. Do you feel better? Need a tissue, cuz I know I'm more than fine... I'm great.
So please stop feeling sorry for something that isn't your business and that you might not even understand. Just sayin'. I'm pretty happy with it all, and I know what's supposed to happen will, so please leave me be. hearts.
One may be the loneliest number, but it sure is better than being with the WRONG one... I hope that's ok with you because oh yea, it's my life.
Go be confident and love yourself. For whether you do now or later... a man will never create such things you, that's your job.


XOXO
Rules Girl

3 Comments:

Blogger Ashley said...

It's sometimes hard to be true to yourself and not end up with the wrong guy just because you want someone... because that is not the way to find true joy. Way to be a strong in-tune woman who knows herself and what's good for YOU! Props.

Sometimes the peanut gallery should just fill their mouths with peanuts and shut up for awhile.

March 8, 2010 at 8:00:00 PM PST  
Blogger Three Cups Full said...

question for you ... i have single friends reading this book, and while i agree with some of the "rules" to a point - do you ever feel like keeping track of "rules" in your head keep you from being yourself?

When i met my boyfriend i broke the rules a little and asked him out on our second date - we've been together a year and plan to get married within the next.

When I point this out to my friends, they tell me I am the one exception, but all girls in our group of friends who are in serious relationships or engaged broke the rules within the first few dates.

Just curious for your thoughts on this :)

March 14, 2010 at 7:51:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Marie said...

three cup full ...yes you can break the rules. I want to ask you a question,,,would it have made you feel great if he had of ask you out on that second date?

August 21, 2010 at 8:42:00 AM PDT  

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