You've got the wrong idea about me

No no no...
A Rules Girl doesn't live through Rom-Com quixotic ideals.
I don't slap guys
I KNOW guys don't read minds
and I especially don't expect a guy to be anything near perfect.

The Rules aren't a life of ridiculous standards and romantic ideals. (Oh, and we don't actually live by rules, we just use the wordage to make it more fun). We just recognize that if a guy wants us, he'll come and get us, so we keep ourselves in check accordingly. We'll give him a little encouragement, but if he likes us, we know he'll do his thang... This blog is just a reminder of what all girls often forget... (you fill in the blank).

Rules Girls also don't sit around waiting for life and especially men to come to them. We live and let relationships improve our situation, not dictate it.

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XOXO
The Rules Girl

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Thursday, February 4, 2010

RG Rant: Stop being ridiculous it's getting on my nerves

I'm serious, I've had enough. Every time I hear about it I to scream in sadness and rage for those who think this way...Align Center If I hear one more comment about how someone feels like they should be "married with children by now", or that they "just won't be happy until they're married, dating someone, etc etc" I will gouge some kind of something out of something or other. I can't take it, you MUST stop. You're hurting my insides, and offended my gender and all that we are.
Don't you understand there is something else for you in store? Do you NOT recognize that you have so much to offer and to be grateful for? Being a mother, a girlfriend, a wife is such a worthy role, but let Life, God, Fate... whatever you believe in... guide you the best way It, He, They... will and do. Or so YOU believe, remember?
What guy wants a girl that is unhappy in her life situation as it is and can't not only make the best of her situation, but LOVE it? None worth having.
No guy wants a whiney, needy, wannabe-something-other-than-I-am-all-the-time girl. If you aren't happy now, you won't be happy then. So I guess... you're just going to have to be miserable and negative for the rest of time whether with a man or not. So please leave me alone and never mention it again because I can't take it. Shed your negativity on someone who doesn't like or trust Life, God, and/or the Fates to give them what they need and is best for the time being.

Please... for YOU...Go be great (and happy)... and love it.

XOXO
Rules Girl

2 comments:

Brenda said...

I agree, you must be happy with who you are NOW because otherwise you're wasting life. Love & miss YOU!!!

Anonymous said...

Amen, sista.

Why be unhappy when you can be happy? Everything's a choice.

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