Monday, January 4, 2010

Don't get emotionally involved too quickly

The best way to save yourself from heartbreak is to NOT get emotionally involved too quickly...
If you've been hurt in the past and have the tendency to be emotionally dependent... then please for your sake (and probably for his), take it one step at a time. You don't want the whole thing to end in two weeks and you realize that you invested a lil too much, and now you're bankrupt and have no feeling at all. As girls we tend to do this because we love to FEEL. We love to invest our energy into someone else, but sometimes you just have to realize the feeling isn't mutual, or it's just not going to work out, or just that you have to hold back just a touch.
Breaking up is awful at all stages, but don't make it worse than it is because the thing had to end more premature than expected causing more heart break because you invested more energy and your heart into it than you should have.
I'm not saying be heartless, just don't give all your heart in the first couple weeks. One step at a time.

Don't be like this guy...
It's harder for your heart to break, if you give them less to break. Use your brain along WITH your emotion. That's the Rules Girl way.
balance.

XOXO
Rules Girl

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Love it, Love it, Love it... love the page, the content, the background the font, ... You've made a follower of me ! not to mention I'm in serious need of your message. : ) Don't invest too quickly... THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!

February 9, 2012 at 1:40:00 PM PST  

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