Saturday, July 25, 2009

Rules Girls aren't affraid of being single

Rules Girls understand that being single isn't the end of the world. We recognize that life isn't about having a boyfriend or being married. We live, and man do we love it. Being single is far from the end of the world.

THIS is the end of the world http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVi_2lHBVhQ

I had someone ask me the other day why I'm not married. Many don't realize that life isn't about marriage, life is about living and doing what is right for you when it's right for you. Why would we want to marry the wrong person, just to check marriage off the list? We wouldn't, becuase the success of a Rules Girl... is happiness. We have very little control over many of the things that happen to us in our daily lives... Rules Girls recognize that we will control what we can, and won't cry over what we can't.
Live it and love it.


XOXO

Rules Girl

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Rules Girl Success = HAPPINESS

You know you have succeeded as a Rules Girl when you obtain the ultimate Rules Girl goal... HAPPINESS.
this brings a whole new meaning to "happy feet" baha. way better than the movie!
I was realizing the other day, that I have never really explained what the goal of a Rules Girl truly is. It's to be happy. Happy with who you are and the situation you are in. More specifically of course, with the relationships you have and their effect on you.

The point of life is relationships, so through them can come great joy, or great sorrow. Luckily, we have control over the health of such. If it isn't healthy, we either fix it, or ditch it.

So, moral of the story. Relationships have a great impact on our happiness, and as The Rules Girl, I'm hoping to give advice according to my success of being extremely happy in life and especially with relationships.
So go out and get happy and stay happy. Hard things will come up, and hearts will break and be lonely... but overall you can be happy. So find your happy place, and stay there. Get out of relationships that cause you anxiety, whether it be friend, boyfriend or foe. Cling to the good relationships that bring you joy and confidence.
Be a Rules Girl.
Be ... HAPPY.

XOXO
Rules Girl

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Wednesday, July 15, 2009

D-A-T-E...Date.

Do I really need to spell it out?
This is what a Date is...

1. Just YOU and them. Nobody else.
2. Man pays.
3. Setting for good conversation (meaning it doesn't always have to be an expensive dinner or mini-golf, a movie... or bowling) think harder, and even cheaper, but not tacky.

And those are the basics. If you don't understand the fundamentals you will never be a successful dater.

As Rules Girls we promote such things by not ...
1. Inviting someone to come along
2. Do the asking and paying
3. Be too high maintenance

xoxo
Rules Girl

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Red Flags


uhhh
RED FLAG!!!!
1. He's not nice to anyone except for you
2. He's not nice to you
3. He flirts with other girls in your presence
4. He's not nice to his mom
5. He doesn't have the same standards as you on some very important issues
6. Debt ish
7. Is he breaking the law? (uhhhh)
Do you see the red flag ignore it? Even if it's waving right in your face?

There are so many red flags and they could be very different for each person. Pay attention to them, because they DO matter.


You don't want to end up like J-Lo on "Enough"... so recognize the red flags and have the courage to first address them, and then run forrest run.


oh, and girls... if you are putting out any red flags... you need to take care of that.
Rules Girls don't hold Red Flags.

XOXO
Rules Girl

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Lo siento... I've been on vacay

Sorry I've been on vacay.
Every Rules Girl needs it.
But I'm back. Give me a shout out: therulesgirl@gmail.com

XOXO
Rules Girl

Monday, July 6, 2009

Rules Girls and Gamer Boyz

It's ok to play x-box ... or some madden and what not, but uhhhhh Rules Girls don't date boys who spend too much time Gaming.

Sorry, it's not meant to be offensive, but it's helpful to be with a guy who has social skills, hobbies, and even sadly to say... a life outside of gaming.

You may be smart, but do you know how to play in the real world?

A Rules Girl can be into gaming too, but it just would never consume her life.
We live in reality.

XOXO
Rules Girl

Friday, July 3, 2009

Rules girls dig change

Rule #566,988 is that when you're feeling stuck in the dating life (ok, or life in general)... throw a change-up.

Bored with your dating situation?
Feel like you know everyone?
Want a different crowd?
Change it up.
It'll be hard at first, but oh so worth it.

Rules Girls are realistic. We recognize what is or isn't there... and do what's necessary.
It's necessary,
Throw a change-up.
XOXO
Rules Girl


How to Throw a Changeup