You've got the wrong idea about me

No no no...
A Rules Girl doesn't live through Rom-Com quixotic ideals.
I don't slap guys
I KNOW guys don't read minds
and I especially don't expect a guy to be anything near perfect.

The Rules aren't a life of ridiculous standards and romantic ideals. (Oh, and we don't actually live by rules, we just use the wordage to make it more fun). We just recognize that if a guy wants us, he'll come and get us, so we keep ourselves in check accordingly. We'll give him a little encouragement, but if he likes us, we know he'll do his thang... This blog is just a reminder of what all girls often forget... (you fill in the blank).

Rules Girls also don't sit around waiting for life and especially men to come to them. We live and let relationships improve our situation, not dictate it.

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XOXO
The Rules Girl

What's the most frustrating thing guys do...

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

The Force

No, I'm not talking about the kind that Yoda uses

ummm can I date yoda?
I'm talking about when THE FORCE... the kind that Rules Girls NEVER do.
Have you ever used the force to do the following:
A. Forced yourself to try and like someone
B. Forced yourself to "Give it a whirl" or continue a relationship when you just KNEW ...
C. Forced yourself against your instincts by giving someone the benefit of the doubt when you should've been protecting yourself from the situation.
Rules Girls don't force things because we are true to who we are and what we want from life. We don't waste our time forcing ourselves in relationships that we know wont' work just to satisfy the loneliness or desire for love appetite. (Go eat fro-yo instead)
You don't see the repercussions of force?
Welp, let me tell you.... You can protect yourself from unnecessary hurt and emotion by not going against your instincts. It's never worth it to go against what your insides tell you. Rules Girls are more than true to themselves because they know what happiness stems from.
Be true.
Don't settle, and Never use this version of "the force".

XOXO
Rules Girl

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

I totally agree... if you FORCE it and it's not supposed to be then later in life you will look back and think, "Man, was that a WASTE of time or what!!!" Life is too short to waste it on someone you don't want to be with! Nice job Rules Girl! XOXO

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