Monday, October 5, 2009

The Un-interested...

In response to more questions concerning: How to respond to mediocre dates
You don't have to blatantly say, "I don't want to go out with you" for the poor lad to get the hint. (ok well sometimes, but usually they are smart enough to catch the drift)
So... what can you do?
Use that body language to your advantage!
How?
1. Don't fully face him with shoulder squared and feet pointing toward him.
2. Point your body and feet toward the door if you can.
3. Have lacking eye contact and look toward the door and clock often.
4. Don't touch him. If you have to... do the "pat pat" with the hug. Guys hate that. (who doesn't?)
Let's practice. What's happening in this picture?

Yep. she's giving interested body language and he's def not.
get it?
ok ok, so I think you get it. Use your "un-interested body language".
So what wordage can be used if you aren't feelin' it for next time... or at all?
"I need to check my schedule"
"Maybe but I'm really busy so we'll see"
Use the "F" word... "Oh yea, I'm glad we're FRIENDS."
"Ummm, I'm sorry I don't know if I can"
and so forth.
Make it clear but not in a blatant "I HATE YOUR GUTS" kind of way. Instead it should be a healthy "no thanks" kind of way...
Find the best excuse that fits for you and use it. It's best if it fits your personality.

Make more sense?

XOXO
Rules Girl

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Better, thanks

October 6, 2009 at 5:39:00 PM PDT  

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