Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Rule #25 No Wiggin'

Our minds start to get all crazy when things are really good in a relationship...
why is that?
Maybe because we aren't used to it? idk.
Sometimes it seems we sub or consciously think "there is no way this is as good as it seems" and we quazi dream up these inconsequential non-existent reasons why our relationship isn't going well or why he "must not like us", even though the guy is doing everything he knows how, and doing it... pretty dang well.

Some examples are as follows:
1. "He hasn't called yet!" (Even though he told you he was working late and would later)
2. "He didn't respond to my facebook post" (he's not huge on the fb and he text you later anyway and you hung out/went to dinner)
3. "Is he too much" (uhhh he sent you flowers for no reason that's adorable)
4. "He didn't like that I said ____ _____"
(when really YOU felt insecure and he didn't care at all)

Keep your noggin' on straight and just go with the flow. Don't worry too much about these little things when the overall picture is... HE LIKES YOU and you know it. Oh man, do I know that is a scary concept... but it's what you said you wanted, so take it.
It's funny that when things are going well we dream up these little silly things, and then when things AREN'T going well... we choose to ignore their existence. Silly us, let's keep our heads on straight... and be Rules Girls...

you're a hottie - just go with it

Rules Girl


Anonymous Never said...

Note to Self: Repeat number 4, repeat number 4, repeat number 4.

April 9, 2009 at 7:16:00 PM PDT  

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