Tuesday, April 14, 2009

It's just 1 date

A little male bird told me that some guys won't ask girls on a date (yes singular) because they are somehow afraid that she'll "expect" something more.
And he says this from experience.

uhhhhhh.... Girls - WHAT HAVE WE DONE!? Granted, some of these guys are complete weenies and just need to step it up... however - guys should not be afraid to date us merely because we're being WAY TOO INTENSE.

1 date is not greater than one.
ok, ok, so you live in a place where there seem to be, how do I say this... few options... the well is dry and you get a little excited at the thought of a crush. I understand, but please this is no excuse. Tone down. Going on ONE date, does not mean the guy likes you, wants commitment, or even that he'll ask you out again. It merely is what it is. A date...We're grown ups now. We go out one-on-one... and he's a REAL man, so he'll pay. He wants to get to know you better or maybe even just have good conversation...so he's gonna treat you real nice, you're going to get pretty and it's going to be a good time.

Let's do what we can to fascillitate more love and not take a date so serious. Take it for what it is, and please don't expect anything out of it except for a grown-up good time.

Grow up. It's just a date.

XOXO
Rules Girl

2 Comments:

Blogger Ashley said...

Love it. Although, why is your male friend such a weenie? He should buck up (ie, gain COURAGE) and get over it! When you take a girl on a date there are really only two outcomes... you either go out again, or you don't. If you don't even ASK her in the first place, you've got ZERO outcomes. Don't be a ZERO, men.

April 15, 2009 at 10:52:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

agreed!!

April 21, 2009 at 6:18:00 AM PDT  

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