Rules #123 BE the Dateable you strive for...
Take a step back.
It's hard to distinguish whether you're striving for great... or non-existent.
It's also a hard reality when you realize that what you're striving for is something you aren't willing to even live up to yourself.
If you're expecting him to be passionate and ambitious... maybe you should be too. If you're expecting him to be supportive and kind... maybe you should be too... if you don't want him to sit around and watch TV all day... maybs you shouldn't be either...
be the dateable you already are... and cut him a little slack,,, he's not perfect either