Friday, March 27, 2009

Guys Don't Date...Cut them a little slack

I was referred to this post by a friend, http://mormoninmanhattan.blogspot.com/2009/03/ive-had-many-request-to-go-toe-to-toe.html

And of COURSE it's the Rules Girl way to be asked out... However, I'm starting to see a cycle in our culture that makes me a little nervous. Some are whining about a problem, that is often a direct reflection of their actions or thoughts. (that doesn't mean it's ok for a guy to not buck-up and ask the pretty, cool, awesome, amazing girl out... it just means that if we are putting pressure on, we need to reflect, recognize, and back the heck off)

Guys do try. Of course they need a kick in the pants every so often, but part of the reason they may not be asking girls out as often as they probably should... could be because some girls give the impression that dating has to be serious.

Another reason could be that these guys may also understand the importance of marriage a little more and it sometimes gives them the heebie jeebies to think of the word 'forever'. Let's not frighten the poor lad - take it easy.

(I don't like to recognize a problem and just shove it in your face with no opinion
on how to take action for change.)

So...
So what can we do?
Keep the balance.
Stay sane.
Don't take dating too seriously.

XOXO
Rules Girl

2 Comments:

Blogger HILL HESS said...

You forgot to use the magic word in your post- "relax" :)

March 28, 2009 at 12:45:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

haha

March 31, 2009 at 12:05:00 PM PDT  

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