Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Don't Open Up Too Fast

You know that feeling... when you consume something cold
way too fast?
A frosty... slurpee... ice cream...

You push your hand against your head wishing the dreaded brain freeze would stop!! AAACK
Same concept.

Sometimes we all open up and get into the serious conversation way too fast for our own good. We start talking about deep emotions that may radiate some kind of past tension or negative emotion.... ew

I'm not saying you should be superficial and only talk about your favorite movies, I'm just saying...
Don't talk about these and much more:

#1. Your dating past. uhhh no - spare us all
#2. Your beef with someone from high school (get real, it's high school)
#3. How your father scarred you for life.
#4. Financial Woes
#5. Your need for lovin'
#6. Your foul relationship with your siblings
#7. Your dislike... for anyone is completely off limits
#8. Anything else heavy should be left for after they actually know you

Ideas of what you SHOULD talk about:

#1. Common interests (music, politics, movies, SNL, sci-fi, card games, saving the whales)
#2. Food n' stuff
#3. Ideas and Ambitions
#4. Travel Plans
#5. Why you love the ocean or being barefoot

make sense?
Laugh instead of cry together...

Oh FYI: The person also may end up feeling sorry for you instead of actually liking you. Nobody likes to be the pitied friend... so please don't pull this card.
Avoid giving someone a Brain Freeze
leave a little info for later
(A Rules Girl always leaves them wanting more)

Don't be the brain freeze... let them SAVOR YOUR FLAVOR (baha)

Rules Girl



Anonymous Anonymous said...

Such a good point. Save deep thoughts for when your relationship is a little deeper. Enjoy the shallow end for a while.

March 18, 2009 at 12:15:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Too bad women are so stubborn to ever open up to a guy. And when a guy wants her to, she bitches him out when all he does is care about your feelings. And when a guy doesn't ask you bitch about it too

June 16, 2009 at 1:29:00 PM PDT  

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