Saturday, February 28, 2009

"You're not the exception..."

"...You're the rule"
you sure ARE the rule...

I don't know how you felt about the movie, "He's just not that into you"... but some of those situations were just straight up PAINFUL. Probably because they were REAL. It reminded me of so many Rules Girls concepts... especially that Rules Girls DO NOT give their friends false hopes. Encouragement yes, but false hopes... no.

DO NOT FEED IN TO THE CRAZINESS.
Be a pal and be straight up in the nicest way possible.
Easier said than done...you have to do a lot of listening before you can let out the truth.
Sometimes you just have to wait and not say anything for a while, until it gets
completely out of hand. Then when they even mention they might be getting crazy, jump on in there with truth.

You're also not the Exception.

As said on the movie, girls always want to give their girlfriends hope in ridiculous scenarios, pretending the guy actually likes them when in all reality we're fully aware a guy in love, like, or anything else, does not treat his girl like dirt.

I know you are sometimes (maybe subconsciously) looking for the exception and hoping you ARE the exception to the rule, but you're not. If you find yourself thinking you're the exception... or hoping you will be... STOP. YOU have the power to end things, to move on, and to find something better.

Do yourself a favor, get rid of the bad in your life. Be you, love it, enjoy life... exude confidence.
XOXO
Rules Girl

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4 Comments:

Anonymous mm said...

i love this post.

January 8, 2010 at 10:36:00 AM PST  
Anonymous heather said...

ughhhh, yes you're right. now I understand why my girl friends are like that when it becomes to my LDR romance. errrr

November 3, 2010 at 11:33:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just watched the movie..and its so true. I love all the romance shit but at the end of the day, that stuff happens in the movies

June 20, 2012 at 1:32:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just watched the movie..and its so true. I love all the romance shit but at the end of the day, that stuff happens in the movies

June 20, 2012 at 1:32:00 AM PDT  

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