Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Shhhhhhhhhhhhh don't tell

You're not supposed to tell boys about THE RULES.
ESPECIALLY not the ones you're dating or WANT to date...
why? A. they might be an unbeliever of some sort... and B. you don't tell the opposing team your strategy!

credibility statement: I clearly made this up out of thin air...
Group 1: The Unbelievers
They think you're crazy and high maintenance with way too high of expectations when it comes to dating. (they may also be lazy or non-committal, but let's give them the benefit of the doubt and just call them unbelievers) The reason they think this way is they don't understand themselves and have never dated a guy before. Thankfully for us, there are few of these.
Group 2: The Cowards
The kind that aren't quite sure and will never admit that they like to be the man. They haven't quite come to terms with their "Role" in the whole dating game. Sometimes these kind laugh at the rules, even though they know that they wish the girl would do it...these kind are really annoying. These are often "players". ick. Unfortunately, there are quite a few of these ones.
Group 3: The Chosen
These are our favorites. These ones are aware of how the dating game goes and wish girls would actually live by them but would NEVER tell the girl they like this fact or HOW to live The Rules (they would only tell their girlfriends, therefore... me). These are your best guy friends (but not guycessories) that will be completely honest with you about how it all works...they're the best ones to talk to about such things. HOWEVER, that doesn't mean you need to tell them all the rules. You can however utilize them for your personal research and analysis. Watch they way they date girls, why they end up breaking up with them... you'll see what I mean... They are The Rules Girls CHOSEN. baha.

shhhh keep our secrets between you and me.

Rules Girl
ok let's be real, I don't care if you tell... I'm just sayin' sometimes they don't quite get it or get the wrong idea. Might as well keep your strategies to yourself...oh and clearly these groupings are generic and partially untrue, but again... you know what I'm sayin'.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should make a newer and recent post about the red flags again. I'd like to get into a debate with all the people clicking the 'rude to his mother' box...

It matters how he treats YOU, not his mom. And CLEARLY, fired from multiple jobs = irresponsibility, lack of direction and motivation, and poor; the biggest red flags ever. Do you really want the guy who will NEVER be able to take care of you? He can't even take care of himself...But at least he's nice to him Mom!...PSHT.

Stop thinking with your feelings for 5 seconds and use your head...that is all :)

January 29, 2010 at 12:27:00 AM PST  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Uh...I'm gonna have to disagree with that 100%.

The issue with the "rude to his mom" thing is that that is the way he treats people that he is familiar with. Once the novelty wears off, people revert to their regular behavior patterns--which means that insensitivity or rudeness to a woman who deserves his respect (like you do!) equals a very poor picture of your future life. Not to mention that are hundreds of reasons that a person could be fired from jobs, several of which do not include irresponsibility, lack of direction or motivation, and do not necessarily result in you being poor for the rest of your life.

Though in all fairness, I will say, that if you're in it for a meal ticket and not a companion, lack of job firings is the absolute most important thing. It all depends on what makes you happy :)

January 30, 2010 at 4:54:00 PM PST  
Blogger Ashley said...

So wise, Rules Girl... :)

February 2, 2010 at 5:02:00 PM PST  

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