Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The "too-long" relationship

Once a relationship gets to a certain point... it needs to move one way, or the other.

There are multiple check points like these in a relationship. It's almost like you're hiking a giant mountain... along the way you get to a certain point and evaluate whether or not you're willing to endure the blisters, heat and cramps to keep on hiking. Or you could just quit and walk back down and find a new mountain. Lots of people hike all the way to the top (where I hear there is a great view), but most of us make it only so far. We get pretty high up there, but only about 3/4 the way.

Is it worth it to hike 3/4 of the way and not finish? I think most of us would say the exercise we got along the way was rewarding, but we wish we would've stopped at point X instead of point Y. Point Y was just a little too far and the terrain started to get ugly anyway.

Is this analogy annoying you yet, because I'm tired of it. Here's what I'm saying...

Girls. Sometimes it's time to let go. Sometimes it's mind over matter... even though the matter seems to be what you want. Do you want a man, who doesn't want you? It's brutal, but rules girls have to be self-confident and true to themselves. Live your life...

xoxo
Rules Girl


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1 Comments:

Blogger Maria said...

Amen. It is the hardest thing to do, but very necessary.

January 8, 2009 at 8:47:00 AM PST  

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