Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Men will forever be the hunters

Men used to grunt and hit small animals on the head with clubs and build fires with nothing but a stick and rock. Sounds masculine and hot, I know.

ok, so maybe not quite like this - but you get the idea

Now they tackle each other, change tires with their bare hands, and eat big juicy steaks. Even as children they chase each other around with guns and play with muscle bulging G.I.Joes and real fast cars.

Are YOU going to be the one to take the manly out of them by letting them sit around and let you do all the work? They want to do it, I promise they do... so please just let them.

Ask any guy in his right mind and he'll tell you that he prefers to do the work in the relationship. Yea, he appreciates reciprocation, encouragement, communication and adoration... but he definitely likes to be the one to lead, and play the first card.

You're right. Guys often date girls they didn't have to work for. However, how long do those relationships last? And be honest with yourself, how confident are you about the relationship if all he has to do is show up?

Be confident, live a full and happy life, try your best, and naturally he too will come.

Rules Girl


Blogger HILL HESS said...

love the caveman pic

January 8, 2009 at 8:06:00 AM PST  
Blogger Maria said...

I've heard this straight from guys too.

January 8, 2009 at 8:46:00 AM PST  
Blogger Collin Mapp said...

Wowzer! Look at that hideous beast in the caveman picture! If I were on a date and that creature lumbered out of the woods, I would - POW! POW! Knock it out! Then grab my date by the hair and pull her to safety!

January 9, 2009 at 7:34:00 AM PST  

Post a Comment

Subscribe to Post Comments [Atom]

<< Home